Hello Uncle T and the rest of the advice joint, I am a 28-year-old woman living in Soweto and I have been in a relationship with my man for 6 years. I love him very much, and I wish we could get married someday, but he just doesn’t know how to satisfy me in bed. As a woman, I do not want to make him feel any less of a man by showing him the right parts to touch, which is why he still doesn’t know where my g-spot is!
In the early days of our relationship, I thought things would improve, but they didn’t. It has come to a point where I have to buy erex droplets so that it can be easier for me to get aroused, but for how long though? So please advise me on what I should do to solve this issue before I cheat on him, help!
A couple that communicates even about the smallest of things, is a happy couple. I understand that his pride and ego may seem important and fragile in this case, but don’t you think your relationship is of high importance than any of those? Communication is always an important factor in relationships and marriages, without it, things become difficult for couples to sort out.
The problem is not with the boyfriend not knowing where to touch, but the problem is with the stigma in your head that women cannot be drivers during intimacy. You can’t deprive yourself of orgasms because you are afraid of taking charge my dear, tell him to sit down for a change and do that job for yourself. Teach him where to touch, how to touch, and when to touch if needs be, but do not allow yourself to just lay there like a chicken.
Our differences as men and women are the reason why today we are at war with each other, they are the reason why lovely couples end up hitting the court for divorce, the reason why we are so divided. I urge you not to allow those to ruin what you have, if your boyfriend does not know how to do something, even if it means cooking, that doesn’t mean he is useless, it simply means you need to clear up your schedule to make time to teach him something new.
From today onwards, I am planting a seed of positivity in you, it is your duty to water it with solutions instead of problems, it is your duty to make sure you whack any negative weeds around it, it is your duty to fertilise it with calm reactions, and once it is all grown and has bared the sacred fruits, share them with the world!
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