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I know he’s my best friend’s man, but I just can’t stop sleeping with him, help!

Hello Uncle T, I am a 26-year-old Black woman living with my best friend in a flat around Johannesburg. I work at a beauty spa and the little that I get, my friend and I combine it to settle the rent and buy food. Not that my friend is struggling, her man helps her out since he’s here most of the time.

Speaking of that, I have recently been having a secret affair with him and the s*x is just too good. Not that I am bragging or something, but I want to emphasize on the fact that it is hard to single out the wrong in all of this because it feels so good. I love my best friend, but I just can’t stop sleeping with him.

Worse part is; I am starting to fall in love with him, yet at the same time, I don’t want a relationship with him. What should I do Uncle T, help?! – Anonymous – Johannesburg.

Hello there,

Friends are supposed to be people we trust, people we protect, and people we look up to when things go bad. It is not up to me to judge, but I do not think you still own the rights to call her your ‘friend’ after sleeping with her man. A true friend is supposed to go out there & fight all the other ladies who are trying to invade their girl’s property/space/man, not sleep with their boyfriend behind their back.

Put yourself in her shoes, she is sitting there, probably thinking about a future with this man, so oblivious of the daggers being stuck behind her back by someone she trusts and lives with. I do not expect you to understand, but imagine the pain she’ll have to endure the rest of her life if she finds out that you have been biting more than you can chew from her tree.

She will have to live with the pain, not to mention the distrust for the rest of her life. The only advise I have for you today is; stop whatever is happening, stop it now, and in order to save your friend from the pain of finding out on her own (because eventually she will, I think you should tell her. It is better for her to hear it from you with an apology, then to see it for herself with her own eyes.

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