Men get turned off by the size of my shoes (size 9), please help!

Hello Uncle T, I am a 29-year-old single black female living in Parktown alone in a Bachelor penthouse. I am currently running my own successful business and I can afford my life, except when it comes to relationships. This is mainly because most men that I have dated get turned off by the size of my shoes.

This is no joke, I wear size 9 and immediately they realize that, they make fun of it and the relationship/fling does not last. I am at the verge of giving up on love and relationships, but I need your advice first. Is there any alternative solution for this? Help!


Hello there,

The problem is not that you wear a bigger size or not, but with the men you involve yourself with. First of all, if someone really loves you or claims to love you, then a silly thing like a shoe size shouldn’t matter to them right? Correct me if I’m wrong, but there’s a saying that says ‘’love is blind,’’ which clearly emphasizes on the fact that if you really love someone, even their flaws turn into perfection.

You my dear cannot deprive yourself of happiness just because a few silly men cannot stand a woman with a shoes size equal/bigger to theirs. Clearly these men are afraid of a challenge (lol). My advice to you is; do not give up on love, give it one more try and who knows, maybe you might just find yourself a man who’ll love you with or without a big shoe size. KEEP ON BELIEVING!!

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